ummmmmm , nice topic lol , Love ,trust , honesty, good comunication skills, partnership working together not just one person running it. and careness. also good listening skills like listen to what he or she is trying to say like if you guys are trying to work things out. Relationships require alot of work no dout. I'd rather be single a long time then be in a relationship where the guy is abusive or treats me badly other wise I just got out of a seven month relationship I was afraid to let go because I really loved him, but.. he was never around and..sometimes verbally abused me he came up with pretty mean things to say, he mostly just wanted sex everytimee he got horny he called me. I never want to go through that again ever again so please guys and dolls don't ever let anyone treat you badly or hurt you other wise be with someone who treats you very well and realy love s you alot someone who makes you feel worth wild it may take time but, happiness will come to you, just wait and see.